Ways to Travel the U.S. As a Family of 4

Once you’ve made the decision to see the country you may be feeling excited but unsure of where to get started with your travel plans. There are so many different options out there, it is easy to feel overwhelmed.

The way you decide to travel across the US could have a tremendous impact on not only your success while traveling, but your ability to enjoy the activities, adventures, and destinations you travel to. Here are some of the best ways to travel the U.S. as a family of 4 and ways you can make life on the road a little easier for the whole family.

Choosing the Right Mode of Transportation

Finding the best way to travel as a family of four depends on your budget, destination, and preferences. Whether you’re hitting the open road, flying across the country, or interested in exploring scenic train routes, each option has distinct advantages and potential disadvantages, depending on your family's specific needs.

Road Trips in a Car or SUV

Road trips offer unmatched flexibility. You can set your own schedule, stop whenever you want, and explore hidden gems along the way. Cars and SUVs are ideal for families who enjoy bonding over playlists, roadside diners, or spontaneous detours. The convenience of having your own vehicle also eliminates the need for rental cars once you reach your destination. Once you start traveling, that extra time and money is that much more valuable.

However, long hours on the road can test everyone’s patience. Young children may get bored easily and get frustrated on longer car rides. You can keep them comfortable by packing travel pillows, creating playlists with their favorite songs, and planning for frequent rest stop breaks can make the drive considerably more enjoyable.

ACA Pro Tip: Invest in car organizers to keep essentials like hand sanitizer, snacks, drink options, and napkins or paper towels easily accessible.

Traveling in an RV or Camper

RVs and campers combine transportation and lodging, which can make them an excellent choice for families who love scenic routes and outdoor adventures. They’re perfect for exploring national parks, rural destinations, and remote areas where accommodations might be limited. An RV also allows you to travel at your own pace, with the comfort of a kitchen, beds, and a private space for your family.

However, operating an RV requires preparation. You need to make sure you:

Practice driving an RV before you decide whether to rent or buy
Understand parking restrictions
Make sure you account for higher fuel costs
Determine whether your truck is capable of towing (for travel-trailers)
Consider how your family will feel living in a smaller space

If you do decide to go with an RV or travel-trailer, maintenance is also crucial. Plan ahead by learning how to handle minor repairs and knowing where to find RV-friendly services along your route.

Beware of vehicle specifications when choosing a travel trailer to tow. If the trailer you are looking at is at the upper limit of your towing vehicle’s rated towing capacity, you may face issues such as reduced steering feel and trailer sway. These situations can present considerable dangers for you, your family, and other motorists on the road.

ACA Pro Tip: Research RV parks and campsites in advance. Consider choosing a campsite close to playgrounds so kids can play close by.

Flying Across the Country

Flying is the fastest option for families traveling long distances, which makes it an ideal option for those with limited time. Airlines often offer family discounts or packages, and some even provide amenities like priority boarding for families with young children. While flights reduce travel time, they can be costly, especially for a family of four. Baggage fees, layovers, and the stress of navigating airports can add to the challenges.

Planning ahead can help mitigate these difficulties. Booking non-stop flights, packing light carry-ons, and preparing kids for the security process are simple ways to make air travel more manageable. Additionally, checking for family-friendly airlines or seat arrangements can enhance comfort during the flight.

ACA Pro Tip: If you’re a frequent flyer, start tracking your credit card points and flight miles so you can take advantage of amenities like business class upgrades and access to airport lounges that make your travels that much more exciting.

Taking a Train

Trains offer a more relaxed travel experience. With scenic routes and roomy seats, train travel provides opportunities for families to bond while watching the countryside roll by. Trains are often less stressful than flying, as there are no security lines, and you can move freely throughout the car.

While train travel is slower and more limited in routes compared to flying, it’s perfect for families who prefer a laid-back pace. Many train services offer sleeper cars, family cabins, and dining options, ensuring everyone is comfortable during the trip.

Budgeting for Your Family Adventure

Planning a family trip on a budget requires thorough preparation, especially when traveling as a family of four. From transportation to lodging and meals, there is a fine balance to be found between managing expenses while creating a memorable experience. Having a thoughtful and well-organized budget can help you avoid unexpected costs and rest easier knowing you have a plan in case of emergencies.

Setting a Realistic Travel Budget

Before you start planning, you need to have a budget in mind. But figuring out how much you should allocate for your travels is deeply personal. How much your family should designate for travels depends on your personal financial goals, income, expenses, and priorities. So as you’re creating your budget, you can start by listing essential categories like transportation, lodging, meals, activities, and souvenirs. Then, work together to determine a specific spending amount for each category. This way, you have a clear understanding of your financial boundaries and can reduce the likelihood of overspending.

But it is also important to remember to be flexible. Some expenses may fluctuate depending on your timing, location, and personal preferences. Research average costs for your chosen destination, including seasonal variations, and factor in any discounts or deals you might find. Do not forget to budget for unexpected expenses, such as emergencies or last-minute changes. Having a strong emergency fund can give you the peace of mind you need to travel without financial worry.

ACA Pro Tip for Saving: Plan your trip during off-peak seasons when rates are lower. Book in advance or plan to make larger purchases (like theme parks or cruises) using Black Friday or off-season sales when you may be able to get a discount of 50% or higher!

Affordable Lodging Options

Accommodations are often one of the largest expenses for family travel, but there are plenty of affordable options to explore. Hotels and motels offering family-friendly packages can provide a balance between comfort and cost. For larger families, Airbnb or vacation rentals are excellent choices, offering additional space, kitchens, and amenities like laundry facilities.

Camping or glamping can be a cost-effective and adventurous alternative, particularly for outdoor-loving families. National parks and campgrounds often have affordable rates and provide opportunities to bond over campfires and stargazing. For urban destinations, consider hostels with private family rooms or budget hotels near public transportation hubs.

ACA Pro Tip: Compare rates across multiple platforms, consider staying slightly outside city centers for lower prices, and take advantage of loyalty programs to earn free stays or discounts.

Dining on a Budget

Food expenses can quickly add up during a family trip. But there are several ways you can minimize costs while still enjoying delicious meals. Packing meals and snacks for road trips or flights not only saves money but also keeps kids satisfied between destinations. You may also be less likely to waste food. But part of the fun of traveling is being able to try out new, exciting, and most importantly, delicious restaurants and dining experiences.

If you’re a part or full-time digital nomad family taking advantage of extended stays, cooking in a vacation rental or hotel kitchenette is a great way to reduce your food expenses. Grocery shopping at local markets allows you to truly immerse yourself in that culture. It will amaze you how different the food experiences can be throughout the U.S.

ACA Pro Tip: Pack snacks you know you and your kiddos will enjoy on travel days. Pack the kids their own lunch boxes of snacks for easy access. Research restaurants that catch your eye in advance to get a feel for the menu and pricing. You can avoid the dinner crowd by eating earlier in the day or eating out on weekdays.

Best Destinations for Family Travel Across the U.S.

When you explore the United States as a family there are endless possibilities. From jaw-dropping national parks to bustling cities and hidden gems off the beaten path, the U.S. is so vast, you could spend decades exploring your own backyard and still not see everything our beautiful country has to offer. Here are some of the top destinations on our bucket list and ones you may want to consider for your next family adventure.

National Parks and Scenic Routes

National parks are one of your best opportunities to connect with nature and create lasting memories surrounded by breathtaking views. Parks like Yellowstone, the Grand Canyon, Yosemite, and the Great Smoky Mountains are some of the most popular destinations. Consider adding some of the least visited nationals parks, like Congaree, America Samoa, or Isle Royale to your travel plans to enjoy the beauty of the U.S. without the crowds you can expect to see at Zion or Yellowstone.

Activities in these parks cater to all ages, from hiking and biking to educational programs like the Junior Ranger initiative. For families seeking adventure, many parks have guided tours, rafting trips, or even rock climbing opportunities that are suitable for beginners.

ACA Pro Tip: Invest in a National Parks Pass for year-round access to over 2,000 sites, saving money on entrance fees. Book campsites or nearby accommodations well in advance, as popular parks tend to fill up quickly during peak seasons. Research park-specific safety guidelines to prepare for weather changes and wildlife encounters.

Big Cities with Family-Friendly Attractions

Big cities like Orlando, New York City, Chicago, and San Diego are bustling and offer countless opportunities for family fun. Orlando is synonymous with theme parks, including Walt Disney World and Universal Studios, while New York City has iconic landmarks like the Statue of Liberty, Central Park, and the American Museum of Natural History. Chicago’s Navy Pier and Shedd Aquarium are must-visit spots, and San Diego offers family-friendly beaches, the world-renowned San Diego Zoo, and LEGOLAND California. Some of our favorite activities when traveling through a big city include:

Aquariums
Theme parks
Science museums
Walking tours
Theatre shows
Art museums
Food tours

ACA Pro Tip: Look for city passes that bundle admission to major attractions at discounted rates. Plan your itinerary strategically to avoid crowds by visiting popular spots early in the day or during off-peak hours.

Off-the-Beaten-Path Adventures

Exploring off-the-beaten-path destinations can provide families with unique experiences away from crowded tourist hotspots. Small towns, quirky roadside attractions, and lesser-known regional landmarks offer a sense of adventure and discovery. For example, Carhenge in Nebraska, a whimsical replica of Stonehenge made from vintage cars, is a hit with both kids and adults. The World’s Largest Ball of Twine in Kansas provides fun photo opportunities, while Luray Caverns in Virginia captivates visitors with stunning underground formations and the enchanting Great Stalacpipe Organ.

Image Description: A photo of a green fish monster sculpture with “Carhenge” and blue skies in the background.

These hidden gems often offer a slower pace, so your family can fully immerse themselves in the experience without the stress of long lines or crowded attractions. These spots can also be budget-friendly, as many roadside attractions and small-town landmarks have low admission fees or are free to visit.

ACA Pro Tip: Plan your route ahead of time to include nearby quirky stops or local landmarks. Check local Facebook groups for insider tips on must-visit spots along your route.

Keeping Everyone Entertained While Traveling

Traveling with family can be an exciting experience, but keeping everyone entertained during your travels is an entirely separate matter. Here are some of our tried and true tips for keeping everyone excited and content on the road or in the air:

Activities for the Road or Air

Traveling long distances can often lead to restless passengers, especially for younger children. Traditional car games such as License Plate Bingo, I Spy, and trivia can break the monotony and keep everyone in the family entertained. Our kiddos thrive with:

For those who prefer quieter activities, pre-downloaded entertainment is a lifesaver. Movies, TV shows, and mobile games can keep kids and adults occupied during long stretches. Non-screen options like audiobooks and podcasts are excellent alternatives if your kiddos tend to get grouchy or attached to devices like ours do.

ACA Pro Tip: Create a travel pack and swap out different toys and activities for travel days. This keeps our kiddos excited for longer travel days and entertained while you navigate rush hour or airport delays.

Managing Sibling Squabbles

Sibling disagreements are almost inevitable during lengthy travels, but they don’t have to ruin your experience. First, give the kiddos each their own “zone” in the car or on the plane. Have them pack their favorite blanket, travel pillow, wireless headphones, stuffed animal, and a lunchbox of their favorite healthy snacks.

When siblings fight, try to minimize conflict. Remember that it is perfectly normal for kids of all ages to feel a little displaced or on edge when traveling to new locations. Games like storytelling, creating shared playlists, or working together on a scavenger hunt can encourage camaraderie among siblings. Schedule frequent breaks for snacks and fresh air to reset before emotions escalate.

Educational Opportunities While Traveling

Turning travel into a learning experience can create lasting memories for the whole family. As homeschoolers, we consider our travels learning opportunities and experiences our children wouldn’t necessarily have access to if they were in public school. We tend to prioritize visits to historical landmarks, cultural sites, and museums.

For younger kids, hands-on exhibits and interactive tours are far more fun and engaging. Older children might enjoy audio guides, scavenger hunts, or books that provide context for the sites you visit. You can even choose stops to follow your children’s interests. For instance, we have plans to visit the UFO and Paranormal Museum in Pine Bush, NY since our daughter is a “spooky” girl who loves all the monster things, and swim with dolphins at Discovery Cove in Orlando for our son who loves the ocean.

ACA Pro Tip: When booking kid-friendly attractions, invest in interactive learning experiences. Our kiddos have been able to dissect squid, feed hippos, and build rockets by taking advantage of these opportunities.

Don’t Jump Into Hasty Travel Plans, It’s the Experience That Matters

Whether you decide to hit the road in an RV, jump from short term rental to short term rental like us, or go full digital nomad and jet around the country, with thorough planning and a thirst for adventure, you can figure out a way to make part or full-time travel a reality for your family of four, just like we did.

Through Acadia Content Adventures, our family aims to share our travel experiences and help others make their travels a little easier. You can learn more about how we came to the decision to become full-time travelers and follow along with our journey by visiting us on LinkedIn or Instagram. Safe travels!